There really is no black and white when it comes to female ejaculation. We do know it has been documented throughout history in sex texts and through other anatomical research. However, the first official research was engaged in by Dr. Beverly Whipple and Dr. John Perry who concluded that during intense sexual excitement, or as orgasm approaches, many women produce a clear, alkaline fluid that is not urine and it can vary in amount from a few drops to about a quarter of a cup (Rebecca Chalker, The Clitoral Truth).
Here is the thing about great sex and female desire: The psychology of female desire has very little to do with sexual prowess. Whether you are a woman or in sexual partnership with a woman, having an understanding of responsive sexual desire and spontaneous sexual desire can be fundamental to whether or not you’re going to have sex tonight.